People love anal play because it feels great. While our society is rife with rumors that anal play is painful and damaging to our bodies, the truth is that butt sex can be healthy and extremely pleasurable. Your anus is packed with nerve endings, and they are the same kind of nerve endings found throughout our genitals: the ones that make other types of sex pleasurable. Anal penetration is also the only way to stimulate the prostate, the male equivalent of the G-spot. To find it, feel the front wall of the anus (toward your partnerís belly button). Itís about two to three inches inside, and it has a slightly crinkled texture that people compare to the surface of an almond. Some men can have orgasms from having their prostates stimulated.

If your partner is hesitant to explore their butt, you may have to dispel some of the rumors they've heard about anal sex. Letís just address some of the common myths upfront:
ē"It hurts!" Anal sex only hurts if youíre doing it incorrectly. The majority of us carry a lot of tension in our assholes--the same way we carry stress in our shoulders. Pain results when an object is forced through tight sphincter muscles, damaging the delicate anal tissues. If anal sex ever hurts, you should stop or take the stimulation back a notch. Remember--the key to anal pleasure is relaxation and lubrication! (Please donít ever use numbing creams for anal sex. Pain is a warning signal from our bodies that we should take seriously.)
ē"It gives you hemorrhoids (and/or uncontrollable bowels)!" Most people find that when they start exploring butt play, their anal health improves. All muscles benefit from the increased circulation that results from exercise and relaxation.
ē"Itís messy!" Although youíre likely to encounter some poop in your anal sex career, itís probably going to be a lot less than you imagined. Most anal play engages only the first few inches of the anus and rectum, which do not store feces. Most people find that a thorough wash in the shower does the trick for removing any surface grime. If youíre fastidious about cleaning, try an Anal Douche with regular room temperature tap water a couple hours before you play.
ē "It means youíre gay!" People of all genders and orientations enjoy anal play. We all have butts! Besides, itís a myth that all gay men only have anal sex. In fact, the majority of gay men report that oral sex is their favorite sexual activity.

The Right Stuff

So whatís the "right way" to do anal sex? Each of these steps is crucial to happy butt sex. [
1. Relax Beginners need to learn to relax the sphincter muscles that ring the anal opening. Learning to relax these muscles can take time--especially after years of neglect or tension. Run your finger along the anus to relax it first. Gently insert lubed finger into the anus. Ask your partner to push out as if trying to have a bowel movement and that will relax the outer sphincter enough to slip in a finger or butt toy.
2. Communicate Itís important that the person being penetrated control the pace of play. Nothing should ever be forced or hurried in anal play, and partners should stay in close communication about what feels good--and what doesnít.
3. Use lots of lube. Donít skimp on lube! The fragile lining of the anus does not lubricate sufficiently for pleasurable anal sex. Add more lube than you think you need. Generously lube the anus and your toy, and reapply often. A thick lube stays where you put it and can protect delicate anal tissues if you use enough.
4. Go slow. Especially at first, when your toy or finger first enters the anus, your partner will need some time to adjust to the sensation. Check in about what feels good. As he learns to relax his sphincter muscle he'll probably request more vigorous thrusting.
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Enchanted Pleasure Wand
Flexible and fun, the Enchanted Pleasure Wand is a waterproof vibrating probe that comes equipped with four stimulating functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. A velvety soft finish coats the bendable PVC material, which warms quickly to body heat for comfort. Sexy ridges and bulges offer extra sensation, while a small rounded tip makes insertion easy. Total length is 8.5 inches with an insertable length of 6.5 inches. Requires 2 AA batteries not included
Unisex Douch/Enema
Have a safe and fun sex life! The Unisex Douche and Enema Set includes all the pieces you will need for proper hygiene. A two-liter collapsible bag with hanger, hooks onto a strong suction cup. A four-foot flexible hose attaches to the bag and has an on/off valve for water control. Use the 2.25in long spout for anal cleansing and the 5.5in multi-spout tip for vaginal cleaning. For men and women alike, keep it clean!
Kobe Tai Anal Adventure Kit
]4 x .75 inch petite butt plug, 7 x 1 inch multi-speed vibrator, 6.25 x 1.25 inch penis shaped sleeve, 7.5 x 1.25 inch ribbed extension, 11 inch graduated jelly anal beads, 1 oz Doc's Anal Lube.
Douche System - For Him
Love anal play? Clean up before or after quickly and easily with this simple douche system for men. With natural rubber squeeze bulb and two comfortable and stimulating attachments, its a must-have accessory for your sex toy stash! The tilted tip on the longer attachment is perfectly positioned for prostate stimulation, while the three graduated bulges on the nubby attachment feels great sliding in. Just squeeze the bulb while submerging the tip in water to fill the douche. The attachment tips are made of phthalate-free PVC and are also compatible with the Universal Water Works System (sold separately). Color: Black Type: Douche System includes: Bulb, Tilted Attachment, Knobby Attachment.
Customer Review: "The Douche System for Him is a fantastic way to feel fresh all day. There are two attachments for cleansing your manhole. The traditional does the necessary duty of a typical douche kit, and I am grateful of the graduated bulges. I'm more fond of the p-spot attachment though because it squirts warm water directly on my sweet spot. This is a must have kit for men like me. "

Pjurs Back Door Relaxing Anal Glide
Grab Pjurs Back Door Relaxing Anal Glide for the best performance! This is a silicone lubricant that has been especially developed for anal intercourse. Precious jojoba extracts have a relaxing effect and give it a especially long lasting lubricating effect. This lube is condom safe. Glide into exciting back door action!
Euphoria Enhanced Male G Spot Stimulator
Enjoy amazing sensations with the assistance of this intuitively designed prostate massager! The Euphoria Enhanced offers additional length and girth for more satisfying sensations, allowing the experienced male user to explore even more prostate pleasure! A curvy handle and a perineum stimulator are stylishly incorporated into the smooth plastic, with a nonporous surface that cleans up easily with soap and water. Both water based and silicone lubricants are safe to use with this toy. Color: Black Type: Prostate Massager Length: 4 1/2in Width: 1 1/2in Special Features: Nonporous.
Customer Testimonial: This is by far the best prostate massager I have used yet! Great price compared to the aneros and works just the same way. It is small enough for the beginner, but works with your body well enough to be used by more advanced users. The hard construction makes it easier to get o those hard to reach spots and the shape makes it easy for hands-free operation! I use it with Vaseline for best entry and continued lubrication. So easy to use that my wife can pop it in and spice up our lovemaking! Highly recommended.

System Jo Anal Silicone
The finest pharmaceutical grade anal lubricant in the World! System JO Original are silicon based lubricants. They are super long lasting and water proof. They work great under water, are latex compatible and manufactured under strict FDA guidelines.
Vibrating Butt Beads
Picture yourself enjoying anal play on whole new level! Vibrating Butt Beads offer everything from gentle pulsations to powerful vibrations. These super stretchy flexible jelly vibrating anal beads with handy retrieval ring offer an orgasm with the touch of a button for men and women. The usable length is 11.5in and the beads are graduated in size up to a diameter of 1in. Use 2 AA batteries, not included, to get 4 functions of vibrations and pulsations resonating through this large strand of beads. If you are looking for huge sexy fun, you will love these beads!
Customer Testimony: I bought this product out of curiosity and I am glad I did. It has given me a inner sensation of goose bumps through my body and a chill. It stimulates you with excitement. Something I have suggested to friends even family members. You won't regret buying it.

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